Who In The World Is Fabiola?

Fabiola - Fantastic Fabiola, actually, is a figment.

Fabiola believes in one thing more than all else:

"If a woman commits to a beehive hairdo,
there ain't a man alive that won't be downright low maintenance by comparison".

Words to live by gals, words to live by.

Well then, you may be asking yourself, Who in tarnation is Mary?  Mary is Fabiola's alter ego.  Mary isn't terribly interesting, she survived growing up in a narcissistic family system, and then because, of course, she then chose to spend decades with the "Fella" yet another narcissist. In fact, Mary is a magnet for that type of personality. Instead of letting it get to her she invented Moi, the Fab, to hang onto her hopes and dreams, and to help her cope. Is that healthy?  Probably not, but doing what you have to do to get through is what life is all about, now isn't it?

This blog is about the Wisdom of the ages (mostly the ages 40 and above), embroidered with life adventures and the occasional flight of fancy. Kinda sorta a lifestyle blog without the style. A gal has to  work with what a gal has.